“The most important decision we make is whether we believe we live in a friendly or hostile universe.” – Albert Einstein
You have within yourself the power and ability to manifest either reality. Which one you create and experience is a matter of choice.
If you look for pain, drama, disfunction and suffering – you will indeed find it. However on the other hand, if you go into the world looking for peace, love, cooperation and understanding – that too shall you find.
Make a choice and own the responsibility.